Family counselling at Auren Wellness takes a systemic view — it looks at what's happening between people, not just what's happening inside any one person. Patterns in families develop over time and often have logic to them, even when the pattern is painful. Understanding the logic is usually the first step to changing it. We draw on family systems approaches and emotion-focused approaches to help families communicate more clearly, understand each other's experience, and build stronger connection across the generations. We work with the full family together in most sessions, and we may also schedule individual or sub-group sessions (parents only, children only) when that serves the work. We aim not to take sides. Our role is to help the family see itself more clearly and build better tools for navigating what's hard. For families dealing specifically with conflict between parents and children, see our page on therapy for parent-child conflict.