Anticipatory Grief Counselling

For grief that starts before the loss: dementia, terminal illness, and the long goodbye.

✓ Same-week ✓ Direct billing ✓ Sliding scale ✓ Licensed therapists

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(613) 518-6072
hello@aurenwellness.ca
Registered therapists

Every clinician is registered with a regulatory college — the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO), the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers (OCSWSSW), or the College of Nurses of Ontario (CNO).

Sliding scale options

We want therapy to be financially accessible for everyone. Reduced rates are available case-by-case based on need and availability.

Direct billing

We submit directly to most major insurers, so you don't pay out of pocket upfront.

Ottawa-based and Canadian-owned

Our office is in Ottawa. All client records are stored in Canada and handled under PIPEDA and PHIPA.

What anticipatory grief can feel like

Ways this shows up that people rarely get to say elsewhere.

WHAT PEOPLE BRING

Mourning someone still here

They're across the table and you miss them. With dementia especially, the person can be present and profoundly absent at once, and visiting can feel like grieving on a schedule.

The unsayable wishes

Wishing it were over, then hating yourself for the wish. Caregivers describe this all the time. It's a sign of exhaustion, not of failed love.

No room to feel it

Between appointments, medications, and family updates, your own grief gets scheduled last. Feelings put off for months don't disappear; they wait. It's worth making room for them sooner rather than later.

How we approach anticipatory grief

OUR APPROACH

Naming this as grief is often the first relief: what you're feeling has a shape, and you're not cold or disloyal for feeling it early. From there, counselling gives the part of you that's grieving somewhere to exist that isn't the hospital hallway or the car outside the care home.

The work tends to cover practical emotional ground: how to be present for the time that's left without being consumed by the ending, what to do with feelings that seem unsayable, how to make care decisions you can live with afterwards, and how to let others share the load. When the loss itself comes, you won't be starting from zero with a stranger; some people continue with the same therapist into the grief that follows.

Where the person you're losing is a parent or partner, our pages on losing a parent and losing a spouse pick up that thread. The wider picture is on our grief counselling page.

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What happens when you reach out

Four small steps. No pressure at any of them.

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You Reach Out, on Your Terms

Email, phone, or fill out our booking form. There's no script and no pressure. You can share as much or as little as you want.

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We Get Back to You Quickly

A real person, not a bot, will reply as soon as we can with a few options for a free 15-minute consultation.

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A 15-Minute Call to See If We're a Fit

We listen. You ask questions. No paperwork, no obligation. If we're not the right match, we'll point you toward someone who might be.

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If You Choose to Book, We Make the Next Step Simple

Direct billing where possible. Evening and weekend availability. Virtual or in-person in Ottawa.

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SESSIONS & BILLING

How Sessions and Billing Work

Sessions are 50 minutes in length. Rates vary by therapist and are confirmed during your free consultation. We accept e-transfer and credit cards, and direct-bill most insurers.

Individual therapy

One-on-One Sessions

Sessions start at $175, depending on your therapist. Sliding scale available with select therapists. Direct billing where your insurer allows.

Sliding-scale spots are available based on need. Ask during your free consultation.

Couples therapy

Two People, One Shared Session

$190 per 50-minute session

Same 50-minute format, structured for two participants and shared concerns.

Insurance, Billing, and What to Expect

Insurance coverage

Registered Psychotherapist and Registered Social Worker services are covered by most extended health plans in Canada. We recommend confirming your specific coverage before your first paid session. Sun Life, Manulife, Canada Life, Green Shield, and most major insurers include coverage.

Direct billing

We direct-bill where your insurer allows it. Otherwise, you pay at the time of session and submit the receipt for reimbursement.

Receipts

Every session generates a receipt listing the provider's license number, suitable for insurance reimbursement.

In-person or virtual

In-person sessions are held at our Ottawa office. Virtual sessions use a secure, PIPEDA-compliant video platform. You can switch between the two.

Cancellation

We ask for 24 hours notice on cancellations. Late cancellations and no-shows are charged the full session fee.

Your first session

After the free 15-minute consultation, your first paid session is intake-focused. Bring questions, anything you have already tried, and any goals you have in mind.

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QUESTIONS

Common Questions About Anticipatory Grief

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Is it disloyal to grieve someone who hasn't died?

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No. Grief responds to loss, and losses are already happening: the conversations you can't have anymore, the future that changed shape. Feeling it now is human, and it doesn't take anything away from the person you're caring for.

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I'm a caregiver and I don't have time for weekly sessions. Are there options?

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Sessions can flex around caregiving schedules, and secure video means you can meet from home or wherever you are. If weekly is too much, your therapist can space sessions out to fit your actual life.

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Does grieving now make the death easier when it comes?

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Not exactly, and that's not the goal. Grieving in advance doesn't use up the grief, but people who've had support along the way often face the loss less alone and less blindsided. The relationship with your therapist can continue into what comes after.

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Do I need a referral to see a therapist in Ontario?

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No. You can book directly with a Registered Psychotherapist or Registered Social Worker without a doctor's referral. Some insurance plans ask for one before reimbursing, so it is worth checking your policy.

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Is therapy covered by OHIP in Ontario?

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Psychotherapy with a Registered Psychotherapist or Registered Social Worker is not covered by OHIP. Many extended health and workplace benefit plans cover it, though plans differ on which credentials they reimburse. Check whether yours covers RP, RSW, or both.

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Can I do sessions online?

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Yes. Our therapists offer secure video sessions to clients anywhere in Ontario, and many people mix virtual and in-person visits depending on the week. Everything discussed stays confidential either way.

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If you need help right now

Therapy is a longer-term relationship. If you're in acute distress, please reach the services below first. They are free, confidential, and available right now.

We're not the right fit for crisis moments.

Suicide Crisis Helpline
Call or text 9-8-8

24/7, free, available in English and French, across Canada.

Distress Centre of Ottawa and Region
613-238-3311

24/7 local Ottawa crisis support, in English and French.

Immediate danger or medical emergency
Call 9-1-1

For situations needing emergency responders right now.

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